Who Do You Love
Rather than relying on limited human understanding, your motivation should be surrendering and trusting in God's truth in all your decisions.
Awakenings from Proverbs 3: 5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.
Activate trust over doubt
May I offer a little unsolicited, friendly advice that will help you understand what motivates you. Society, culture is full of intentional pleasers and go-along-to-get-along people. When YOU are aware of this it will help YOU recognize your true motivation. YOU will move beyond binary choices, and foster personal growth through total dependence on divine wisdom rather than personal anxiety or human logic. Instead of relying on your own understanding or cultural norms, which leads to anxiety, fear, and hate. YOU will start to trust in divine wisdom for greater clarity.
Motivation comes from acknowledging God in every aspect of life—work, family, and everyday choices—which brings calm, purposeful action rather than frantic striving. Pleasing people drains YOU. It distracts YOU with the empty thoughts and pleasures of society. This disengages YOU and keeps YOU in a constant cycle to keep up at all cost. Proverbs 3: 5-6 is calling YOU to cultivate a mindset that avoids doubting during challenges, trusting in the His promise that will align your actions and will straighten your path.
YOU are what you love, so... who do YOU love?